I find it quite annoying that as a society we try to change people?
We meet people and they try to change us to fit there life.
Why do people do this? can't acceptance be something that we should embrace? Why are we so obsessed into changing people to fit our life?
Is acceptance of individuality a dirty word?Why are we so obsessed in trying to change people?
1) Because we find the change we are going thru is a hard process, so for a short brief time of telling people we are letting out the energy to change ourselves and feel a little calm but its temporary and we keep doing it until we are old enough to know that its very immature only then we mellow down and change
2) Some people`s individuality is way too powerfull because it affects other people`s life. Its like i told my parents that we should be more open to children in our care about sex because they are learning it from the media which is not good, no matter how hard we try to hide them they will find out, so its better to educate them then they doing it and making mistake, by then it will be too late. That also will keep child sexual abuse at bay. BUT BUT no one listenssssssssssssss
3) I am bluntly honest, but its not good for them even though im honest about my feelings, I hate it that I have to fake myself in order to live in this world, I seriously hope I dont have to be fake to the person i will be married too, if im not allowed to be myself then i might find someone else who allows that, yeah, its called cheating but you cannot keep the natural ``flow`` of people down for so long, In the end nature will win, I know you know what Im talking about cause you flow too *wink*Why are we so obsessed in trying to change people?
This question is nothing new to human nature...we as a people have always tried to change other people throughout history..is it right ? not sure, like everything in life some of it is for the good and some is for the bad. But look at it for this point of view..where would we be if we never changed our thinking as a people ?Why are we so obsessed in trying to change people?
As human beings, I think we tend to judge people rapidly if they are different from us. We like being around people who are mentally comparable to us since this builds up confidence. We shouldn檛 try to alter other people though, because we are all special and unique. We deserve to see dissimilar mentality from others.
