How on earth do I get rid of this fear of change?Why am I so paralysed with fear just because I want to change my life for the better?I mean,where on Earth does this fear come from?Why are people so scared of changing their lives?I want to change mine,but I%26039;m suffering from the same thing?
Fear comes from thinking about the unknown. It may help us to accept change if we are aware of the reason for the change. Try to think of the positives - if you intend to change something in your life, is it going to make you feel better. Is there somebody you can discuss this with - not necessarily for them to give you advice - merely to listen to you. It is sometimes a good way for you to come up with answers yourself. Good luck and try not to be too scared of the future. Consider change as a journey, with different turnings and roads to be taken. I am sure you will reach your destination.Why are people so scared of changing their lives?I want to change mine,but I%26039;m suffering from the same thing?
everyone fears change becuse your moving from something familiar and comfortable into the unknown and newWhy are people so scared of changing their lives?I want to change mine,but I%26039;m suffering from the same thing?
I cant quite explain i to you,since english isnt my first language,but i can try.
you are human and this fear,although is smth you dont understand,is something that you yourself created.it is because you dont know whats going to happen next.even if you think its going to be better,you still know you cant be sure 100%,and that gives you the creeps-unconsciously,you start asking yourself the question-what is better,now or change?and you become insecure.another thing is,most of us are usualy stable with their lives,used to them,and changing completely,even for better,is quite scary. one way to overcome your fear-go with the flow,and dont try to change time yourself-at least that way you will blame it on fate,not on yourself!Why are people so scared of changing their lives?I want to change mine,but I%26039;m suffering from the same thing?
its a big decision but if you have your sights set on what you know is going to be good for you then go for it the fear will vanishWhy are people so scared of changing their lives?I want to change mine,but I%26039;m suffering from the same thing?
U FEAR OF CHANGES?? dude,changes can be good and sometimes can be bad..it depends on what changes u will make..if u're going to change for example..from a smoker to non-smoker..then that's A GOOD CHANGES!!..but if u're going to change from a normal guy to a fear-of-changes-guy...AND THAT's NOT GOOD,dude! just think and make ur conclusion..and try to overcalm ur FEARS..;)Why are people so scared of changing their lives?I want to change mine,but I%26039;m suffering from the same thing?
Just keep pushing your self one day you're going to say what the hell was I worried about and do it. I don't know where the fear comes from but I know the more you think about it the less you are afraid of it. Just keep pushing and you'll start to see results.Why are people so scared of changing their lives?I want to change mine,but I%26039;m suffering from the same thing?
Fear of loss can play a part in this.
Try to remind yourself that whatever you are losing is being changed for something better.
I have changed my life lots of times and in the process of doing it again (new career)
Just go for it!Why are people so scared of changing their lives?I want to change mine,but I%26039;m suffering from the same thing?
Cause it is a move to the unknown, what helps for most is planing and also sharing the feel with others seeking reassurance by someone who can and will support you in the change.
This is a basic fear in every human, but you must note that fear is not necessarily a bad thing as long as it dasnt become panic, fear makes you more awe of things makes you more careful. Just don't let it direct your life.Why are people so scared of changing their lives?I want to change mine,but I%26039;m suffering from the same thing?
Change is always hard. I think we as people like to get to a comfortable place in our lives and then stay there. Change may mean uprooting yourself and moving to a new place, breaking up with someone we know isn't really making us happy or changing our groups of friends for the better. Even though you are trying to change your life for the better, it is still hard because it means that the things or people around us will change. Starting over can be a wonderful stepping stone to a more productive life and can bring new adventures and experiences that will make us better and our lives better. I think most people like being in that comfort zone. Personally, my life has been a roller coaster of changes but most all of them have improved my life. Look at it as an exciting new chapter in your life, a new beginning and new things to experience. When we get too set in our comfort zone, our lives can become stagnant and boring. Life really is about growing and changing throughout your life. Each change can be a step closer to fulfilling your dreams and becoming a better, more knowledgeable person. Try to look at making changes as a positive in your life. Fear of change is normal, but instead of fear, try to turn that fear in to excitement about what new things will happen to you with the changes that are coming. I have found that nothing stays the same forever, not people, not the world around us, so embrace change and start a new adventure in your life for the best, Good luck to you.Why are people so scared of changing their lives?I want to change mine,but I%26039;m suffering from the same thing?
Change is an ongoing process.... It's happening right now. Each of us is aging (a change), experiencing some aspect of life (which is subtly changing us), getting fat (or thin), etc., etc. Whether you see it or not, your life is already changing with every moment that passes.
It is the mind that tries to abide in one place, trying desperately trying to hold on those things we know. To hold on to those things that provide a sense of security.
Now if you can accept that everything is already changing.... Then, accept that you can choose to influence how things change around you. If you want to change yourself.... TAKE ACTION.Why are people so scared of changing their lives?I want to change mine,but I%26039;m suffering from the same thing?
personally, I think that I fear doing things that make me comfortable, even though I want to change, to better myself and be a better example seeing that it is hard to find a good example, It's just that I have done things so long and it some how became a part of my being happy, even though after I do things I am not happy, I don't think it's fear, I think that you are knowing what you have to let go in order to change, and that's hard, so that you may be afraid of, letting go of the old to bring in the new, and that is hard for me as I speak, real talk
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It is normal to fear uncertainity and unfamiliar forthcomings which of course you dont know if what follows would be worse than the innitial.
It is like diving into unclear waters to in search of a treasure that could bring good living for the rest of your life. Even after being assured it is fine down there - and you havent seen anyone do it before.
The fear is from uncertainity and insecurity. Have you studied animals? WHEN A FOUL GETS INTO A NEW TERRAIN, IT LIFTS ONE OF ITS LEGS UP and after familiarizing itself with the place it feels safe and brings down the leg. That fear is reflex
All you need is faith. Believe in yourself, be optimistic and caurageous and know that Life itself is a risk, know that God is watchin, then TAKE THAT PLAUNGE thats the only way to find out whats in there.Why are people so scared of changing their lives?I want to change mine,but I%26039;m suffering from the same thing?
I feel exactly the same way - whenever I think about changing something dramatic I begin to feel extremly stressed and anxious. This fear comes from the unexpected, the fear of the unknown we feel safe and secure if we follow the same routine and do the same activities. Be strong and try to change just something little each day, these small changes will soon add up and hopefully, reduce your fear when you see how far you have come!!Why are people so scared of changing their lives?I want to change mine,but I%26039;m suffering from the same thing?
Most people fear the unknown. Changing one's life is a gigantic step, one never knows let alone be sure of whether the change will end up being better, or worse; the latter possibility is the root of the fear.
