Wednesday, November 24, 2010

How do you deal with life rapidly changing around you , your family, the people in the neighborhood dying,?

everyone around is moving on with life i want it to remain the way it use to be ? my sisiter is getting married neighbours ah getting married . people i know are dying , having kids and moving away ? how do i accept life changesHow do you deal with life rapidly changing around you , your family, the people in the neighborhood dying,?
I know so many people are so Anti-God and Anti-Bible, but I find the bible has some very pertinent things in it that can help us understand life, in general...



(Ecclesiastes 3:1-9) %26quot;For everything there is an appointed time, even a time for every affair under the heavens: 2 a time for birth and a time to die; a time to plant and a time to uproot what was planted; 3 a time to kill and a time to heal; a time to break down and a time to build; 4 a time to weep and a time to laugh; a time to wail and a time to skip about; 5 a time to throw stones away and a time to bring stones together; a time to embrace and a time to keep away from embracing; 6 a time to seek and a time to give up as lost; a time to keep and a time to throw away; 7 a time to rip apart and a time to sew together; a time to keep quiet and a time to speak; 8 a time to love and a time to hate; a time for war and a time for peace. 9 What advantage is there for the doer in what he is working hard at?%26quot;



Accept that nothing is permanent. We are all temporal beings. It is in our frailty and mortality that makes life, and the experiences we create more meaningful. If everything were to remain the same always, how could we ever really learn life's valuable lessons? I find melancholy in this reality sometimes, but it only brings me closer to the things I love and cherish.



It's a beautiful, yet, tragically poetic thing: LifeHow do you deal with life rapidly changing around you , your family, the people in the neighborhood dying,?
thats the Mrs for your insigts was and is very hepl ful when i get despondent about life i'll try to remember that get 10out of 10 rating

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How do you deal with life rapidly changing around you , your family, the people in the neighborhood dying,?
you just have to. nothing in life stays the same. everything changes and you just have to accept that.How do you deal with life rapidly changing around you , your family, the people in the neighborhood dying,?
You just do, that is called %26quot;growing up%26quot;. Hey, I lost two loved ones to cancer within six weeks of each other last year, it sucked, but life rolls on, you just have to get deeper, and love precious life even more.





No Kitty, that is called %26quot;turning to drugs%26quot;, not a good thing, these things are part of life, you do not want to live in a stupor in order to deal. Trust me, do not use drugs or alcohol to try to cope, it does not work, and makes emotions more intense and less controllable.How do you deal with life rapidly changing around you , your family, the people in the neighborhood dying,?
Some people take antidepressants.How do you deal with life rapidly changing around you , your family, the people in the neighborhood dying,?
There are some things absolutely guaranteed in life; nothing ever stays the same, our expectations are usually too high, and every person on earth will eventually die. Some things are very difficult to deal with. Talking to someone you trust about what bothers you will help tremendously. Knowing that life continues to change is a given, accepting it is a choice.How do you deal with life rapidly changing around you , your family, the people in the neighborhood dying,?
find a good friend and talk toHow do you deal with life rapidly changing around you , your family, the people in the neighborhood dying,?
Just like you have accepted that you are no longer a baby.

Imagine all the changes that happen to you since you're a baby.

How did you accept them?